What's better in a relationship? Someone who's like you, or someone completely different? I've seen people in both kinds and both seem to work... I guess though, I'm more concerned about me. What do I want? Do I want someone who also works in an artistic area? A creative person? Or do I want someone who works in a completely unrelated field, like math, or science, or business, or law, or something not related to the arts at all? An intellectual person? Do I want someone who works in the Humanities, or in the Sciences? The biggest pro/con of a creative person is the bouncing of ideas off of each other. Bouncing ideas is great,it's a mental work synthesis, until one or the other feels that they're not getting the same level of involvement in return. The biggest pro/con of an intellectual person is the lack of understanding about the other's work. It's nice to have seperate lives yet respect or even admire the other's dedication to work, however the problem in this arises when apathy in either party surfaces or when either party feels disrespected. This shouldn't be a difficult question, and yet, I don't even know how to approach it, or if it's important at all.