Seaking of Conflicts of Interest... Why would you need this book if you have this book? Or vice versa? Amazon seems to think that I need both of these, as they were both recommended to me. ... yes, I'm single. Why don't you rub it in. and come to think of it, the premise behind the authoring of this book really pisses me off. I'm not sure if it's better or worse that it was written by a woman, but the very idea that, "Men don't last long during sex but women do, how can we fix this problem... Ah-ha! By shortening the amount of time that women last! Of course, it's brilliant! Now we just need to figure out how to make them fall asleep immediately, that would even the sexual playing field." If the woman in the relationship is really having the problems that this book addresses ("Is sex more trouble than it's worth? Are you too slow? Do you rely excessively on prolonged (even painful) intercourse, oral sex or vibrators? Is your orgasm hit or miss?") then there seem to be two problems here: Someone's not instructing, and/or someone's not listening. If it's not this then there are more deeply rooted problems at play than this book is seemingly prepared to handle. P.S. Hey Amazon, just in case you happen to be listening, the last time I checked my hormonal urges and my psychological impulses, I was led to believe that I don't need this book either. Thanks for the recommendation anyway. ... yep just re-inventoried all my urges and impulses... still don't need it.